They say that the most important time in a human beings’ development is in their childhood. Particularly in their formative years from 0 till about 8 years old. For Robert Kelly his childhood was not the best. Certainly not the worst but it was bad enough. He never knew his father and he was one […]Read More R Kelly the “Monster”?
The last 18 months of my personal life have been extremely challenging and I have not been able to reconnect with my thirst for blogging. However I find myself in a new space and willing to continue the journey back to self actualisation and fulfillment. I will explore other topics this time around. Not just […]Read More The Return.
Courtship is perceived in various ways by different people from all corners of society. Some feel it is still a crucial aspect of strong and long lasting relationships but others think it is a time wasting exercise that does not always guarantee success. By definition most courtship rituals are done with marriage as the desired […]Read More Is Courtship Still Relevant In Modern Relationships?
When I was thinking about this topic a lot of scenarios came to my mind. I thought about the “good old days” when asking someone out was as daunting as it was to write an exam. I thought of those days when pen and paper were our best friends and we mastered the art lyrical […]Read More Do Relationships Started On Social Media Work?
This is the stage in a relationship where you have no doubt or reservations about your partner and you are satisfied beyond the shadow of a doubt that only death can separate you. Only a few get to this point in their relationships. Less still nowadays than in the past as marriages and relationships in […]Read More The Actualization Phase – Long Lasting Relationships.
This is usually the longest part of any relationship. The excitement of the honeymoon phase is now well and truly over and you are now for the most part taking each other a bit for granted. The complexities of life are now making the intimacy and spontaneity you once had a thing of the past. […]Read More The Comfort Zone – Long Lasting Relationships.
This is the time in a relationship that is the most enjoyable. You are truly in love and nothing or no-one can steal your joy. You and your mate are on an exhilarating journey of passion and bliss and you wonder where this person was all your life. They are the Yin to your Yang. […]Read More The Honeymoon Phase – Long Lasting Relationships.
Courtship is ideally described as the period of time in which a couple determines if they can have a romantic relationship or marriage. In long lasting relationships this is a fundamental stage in determining the longevity of a relationship. Typically in most cultures courtship is usually initiated by the man. He usually makes the “first […]Read More Courtship Phase – Long Lasting Relationships.
Most relationships don’t last nowadays. People feel less obliged to stick it out with someone and they find it quite easy to jump ship after a relatively short period of time. However there are those whose relationships have truly stood the test of time. It is important to note from the onset that no two […]Read More The Stages of Long Lasting Relationships.
Arguments and conflict in relationships can be some of the most challenging times one has to endure. Navigating these situations is a skill few have mastered. Communication is the most vital aspect of any relationship. A relationship where there is poor communication or no communication at all is doomed to fail. Good communication is when […]Read More Resolving Conflict in Relationships.